Modupe's story
"I was so lonely before Home-Start. I have no family here, but I am so happy now and that's because of Home-Start."
Modupe came to England from Nigeria in 2004. She left all of her family behind in Nigeria and says that she was the only 'privileged' one to come here. On arrival in England, Modupe felt that she had made a mistake, as she was feeling lonely and isolated. She had no one to turn to for help or support. After the birth of her second daughter Modupe was suffering from post natal depression and was referred to Home-Start by her midwife. She was matched to her volunteer, Helen, who also came from Nigeria. Modupe says that one of the best things that they do is simply talk, this is something that she has missed since leaving Nigeria.
As well as emotional support, Helen also spends time with Modupe offering her practical assistance such as filling in housing application forms, accompanying her on hospital visits or taking her to appointments. Other times it may be support with the children that Modupe needs from reading books to them or taking them out to the shops.
Modupe says that thanks to Home-Start she has really settled in to the British way of life and is now part of her community. Home-Start, says Modupe has replaced her family. She really looks forward to Helen's weekly visit, only wishing she could stay longer.
On the 12th May 2009, Modupe and Helen featured in Home-Start's 'Volunteers Matter' event at City Hall, London. To view their photo essay or find out more about the event please click here.
