Dad Matters, powered by Home-Start, works alongside families, professionals, and organisations to help babies build strong, secure relationships with their dads - right from the start. 

Bonding with your baby is not about being perfect, it’s about being present. Every dad’s journey is different, but the small things you do each day make a big difference to your baby’s world. 

Dad Matters, because for every baby, their dad matters to them. 

Why does bonding matter? 

The early relationship you build with your baby lays the foundation for their emotional, social, and even physical development. Research shows that secure attachment in the first years of life helps children grow up feeling safe, confident, and ready to learn. 

👉 Did you know? 
Babies recognise their dad’s voice from inside the womb. By talking, reading, or singing during pregnancy, you’re already helping your baby feel safe and connected. 

How do I know if my baby is bonding with me? 

Bonding goes both ways. Before they can talk, babies communicate using gestures, sounds, and expressions. You might observe: 

• Your baby seeking your face and recognizing your voice 

• Smiles, eye contact, or relaxed posture when held 

• Excited kicking or gentle reaching toward you 

For more on baby cues and behaviour, check out the brilliant resources using the links below. 

What can I do to build attachment with my baby? 

These gentle, everyday actions can make a lasting difference: 

• Skin-to-skin contact - holding your baby close regulates their breathing, heart rate, and body temperature. 

• Responding to cues - when your baby fidgets or vocalises, your thoughtful responses help them feel safe and understood. 

• Play and interaction - talking, singing, or humorous facial expressions strengthen your connection. 

• Routine care - feeding, nappy changes, bathing - all are powerful bonding opportunities. 

Check out the links below for more great ideas. 

What if bonding doesn’t happen straight away? 

It’s perfectly normal not to feel an instant bond - or to feel uncertain at times - especially after a challenging birth, NICU stay, or life changes. Bonding often builds gradually, with consistency, small moments, and self-kindness. 

If you’re feeling low, anxious, or overwhelmed, remember support is available. You’re not alone. Dad Matters is here, alongside your local Home-Start and health professionals. 

Where can I find more support? 

• Dad Matters resources - Support tailored to dads in the early years

• BBC Tiny Happy People (part of CBeebies Parenting) – A warm, video-rich resource full of simple, everyday ideas to support your baby’s language, communication, and emotional development. 

• DadPad (NHS essential guide for new dads) – Practical advice and support to help you grow in your role, available as a free app or a wipe-clean booklet for £12 ﹣ a handy partner on your early fatherhood journey. 

• Home-Start UK – Family-focused support within your community. 

• AIMH UK (Association for Infant Mental Health UK) – Research and guidance on infant attachment. 

• Brazelton Centre UK – In-depth insights into baby cues and parent–infant interaction. 

• Institute of Health Visiting – Expert advice on early years development and family wellbeing.